Wednesday 6 July 2016

Problems.......yes...I Mean PROBLEMS!!!!!!!!!!!!

Life doesn’t come with a lifetime guarantee of perfection.Everyone in this world is facing their own set of problems.We cannot avoid problems to make our life perfect but we can try and handle our problems perfectly…
*Aarti Khurana* 

Well,do you remember the last time when you did not fret about your problems?Let me guess,the answer is NEVER right?We are constantly laden with problems  such as  not being able to use the latest smartphone,having to eat hostel food which is not appealing to your taste buds,the WIFI connection is so slow(this are the list of problems faced by me and my peers in college actually),etc… It seem like there is no end to all your worries right?You can be facing so much of problems in life that you feel like shouting WHY ME??????????? All the time…..I am pretty sure that most of you would have asked this question to God at least once in your life when you’re faced with a problem.A wise man once said “Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all” so if you don’t face problems in life(TRUST ME IN THIS),your life will  be dull and unadventurous…..You may feel that the problem you’re facing is the biggest problem ever in  the world when in reality,your problem may just be a tear compared to all of the problem in the world in this world combined together which can be bigger than the Pacific Ocean itself….By now,most  of you would be wondering what am I crapping about THAT TOO ON HARI RAYA!!!!!!!!

“God has you in the palm of his hand.he has answers to all the problems you are facing now and all you will face in the future”
*unknown*

Well,this is how the story goes.Since it is Hari Raya today,my family and I visited the home of our traditional healer.It has been a family custom as far as I can remember plus it is my personal way of  expressing my gratitude towards Tata(that is how I address him,I mean the traditional healer) who once saved my life..(YESSSS…you read it right!!!!If not for him I wouldn’t be alive today but let’s just save that story for another day)After a scrumptious brunch,my parents decided to talk to Tata and his family on some adult stuff so I was sitting in front of the Tv watching some old Indian movie…….To be frank,I hate watching old movies(which teenager does like old movies anyway) so I decided to walk around and that was when I saw her.She was a girl,around 4 to 5 years of age and she was lying on the lap of her grandmother.I thought that she was lying down after having a heavy meal but something in my heart told me to go and greet her so I walked towards her…..


She realised that there was someone approaching her and called out “AKKA!!!”….I sat beside them and sparked a conversation.I am not gonna mention her name so I we will just call her SALLY….She will be 5 this year but till this day,she haven’t taken her first step in life(I mean walking).I couldn’t believe my eyes and ears upon knowing that as Sally looked like any other ordinary child who was taking a short nap.As the conversation progressed,I got to know that since the day she was born,Sally could only move her head and fingers but the rest of  her body is immobile.Despite that,she is so jovial and has such a charming smile that could make one forget all of your worries in just a glance.Her current caregivers are both of her grandparents whom based on my observation are not in good health themselves.I only got to talk to her grandmother who has knee problems and has trouble walking herself….

I couldn’t continue my conversation with them as the grandmother was already sobbing and my parents were also about to leave…Sally begged me not to leave her as she wanted a friend to play with and what she did next is what inspired me to write this blog post.Sally tried to get up to give me a kiss on the cheek…As it was impossible for her to do that,I brought myself closer to her so that she could give a light peck on the cheek.I tried my level best to hold back my tears and thank God I didn’t cry in front of them…But I did cry when I entered the car as it was heartbreaking to see a little girl who can't walk plus when I compared my problem with hers,I realised on how blessed I am as my problems are just a tad compared to hers.I said a silent prayer thanking God for making me able-bodied and I also prayed that Sally could walk...maybe just for once(It may sound impossible but I believe that miracles can happen when there is faith plus who can change God's plan anyway)

Problems are like washing machines…they twist us,spin us and knock us around…but in the end we come out cleaner,brighter and better before!!!!!!!!!!!!    *unknown*


As you can see,despite her condition,Sally has such a carefree attitude and is always seen with a smile on her face!!!!She hasn’t even taken her first step in life but she chooses to be happy so why are you fretting over your problems for???Come on,YOLO so why bother about problems?Problems may come and go but live still has to go on right??I am not saying that we should have the ‘tidak apa’,’apa kau kisah’ attitude when faced with problems but to look at our problem from a different angle as what might seem like a huge problem can actually turn out to be just a small problem….

In conclusion,PLEASE!!!OH,PLEASEEEEEEEE!!!!!! ENJOY LIFE AND SELAMAT HARI RAYA AGAIN!!!!!!


P.s.Since it’s Hari Raya today,why not reach out to other special people like Sally and make their day even beautiful.After all,the spirit of helping others is our Malaysian culture kan?

Sincerely,
Saveetra Revathi





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